NARCISSISM IN SOME not enlightened HINDU GURUS

NARCISSISM IN SOME not enlightened  HINDU GURUS

Symptoms of narcisst personality disorder in ijay

kumar aka “sri bhagavan”

Narcissistic personality disorder is characterized by dramatic, emotional behavior, in the same category as antisocial and borderline personality disorders.

Narcissistic personality disorder symptoms may include:

• Believing that he is better than others
• Fantasizing about his power, success and attractiveness
• Exaggerating his achievements or talents
• Expecting constant praise and admiration
• Believing that he is special and acting accordingly
• Failing to recognize other people’s emotions and feelings
• Expecting others to go along with his ideas and plans
• Taking advantage of others
• Expressing disdain for those he feels are inferior , in this case; “not enlightened yet”
• Being jealous of others
• Believing that others are jealous of him
• Trouble keeping healthy relationships
• Setting unrealistic goals;enlightenment of humankind
• Being easily hurt and rejected; his last statements even against his own son
• Having a fragile self-esteem
• Appearing as tough-minded or unemotional showing off his spiritual level with superiority

Although some features of narcissistic personality disorder may seem like having confidence or strong self-esteem, it’s not the same. Narcissistic personality disorder crosses the border of healthy confidence and self-esteem into thinking so highly of himself that he puts himself on a pedestal. In contrast, people who have healthy confidence and self-esteem don’t value themselves more than they value others.

When you or someone  have narcissistic personality disorder, you may come across as conceited, boastful or pretentious. You often monopolize conversations. You may belittle or look down on people you perceive as inferior. You may have a sense of entitlement, in this case, he pretends no less than  to be the tenth incarnation of Vishnu, the Kalki. And when you don’t receive the special treatment to which you feel entitled, you may become very impatient or angry. You may insist on having “the best” of everything — the best car, athletic club, medical care or social circles, for instance, in his case, the biggest and most luxurious temple,big media marketing,tv channels,music industry to praise him ,business investments,etc.

But underneath all this behavior often lies a fragile self-esteem. You have trouble handling anything that may be perceived as criticism, in this case, he sees all criticism as an attack when in reality is an effect of his own pretentious marketing which is disappointing and fleecing many people. He also may have a sense of secret shame and humiliation for what he is doing or pretending. And in order to make himself feel better, he may react with rage , contempt  predictions and even “spiritual” menaces   to belittle the devotee to make himself appear better.

Narcissist gurus produce these very symptoms in their devotees as a last attempt to keep their attention focused in the leader and his narcissist plans.So people who follow this kind of groups quickly develop severe personality disorders that end up in difficult relationships with friends, family , partner.Soon no job in the world will be good enough for them and they will quit their jobs and duties.Their relationship with the world will deteriorate month after month until they react with rage to everyone and everything who don´t  follow their leader conditions and visions.He will become more and more isolated from his environment and his environment will isolate him even more.The result: secret sense of shame, humiliation and unhappiness.